@carldotcliff if you are 100% positive you see traffic on the VM that should not reach them, it is worth opening a ticket as this is not an intended behavior. If you do, tell in the ticket that this was discussed in the forum with David (me), so our support team can assign it to me if they want to.
For the dropped packets, I do not see any on my home setup, which is a pretty "small" network, in our lab, we do have some on our hosts. On bigger network, that could be pretty much anything, broadcast or multicast reaching the host that the NIC is chosing to drop itself, some NIC will also drop some discovery protocol frames, it would be hard to identify unfortunately, but that would not worry me as long as it is not a high count and not impacting performances.