@carloum70 I can't really help you with anything specific but I must make a note that when analyzing network setup you must also take into account the Open vSwitch. Looking at the classic Linux networking, bridging and routing facilities is not enough to get you the full picture.
For example, if I remember correctly, Active-Active bonding (non LACP) is implemented by Open vSwitch with so called balance-slb mode. This mode is not available with classic Linux kernel bonding options. What you are seeing (duplicated IPs) is maybe perfectly normal for this kind of setup with Open vSwitch.
I would search for the cause of the issue somewhere else like network congestion. Heart beats are very sensitive to network congestion and can easily fail if you do not dedicate network links for this kind of traffic. If you are sharing the links over which heart beats are sent with some high traffic stuff (storage maybe?), it can easily make problems.
UPDATE: unfortunately I don't have access to these kind of bonded setups any more so I can't check if the configuration differs in any way from yours. My home lab thingies are single network interface only.
